tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post8503029691834926467..comments2023-08-21T10:21:27.413+01:00Comments on Dew drop dreams through the looking glass: Onwumbiko*DewdropDreamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01458048793584270994noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-83382967413873544952008-09-15T07:15:00.000+01:002008-09-15T07:15:00.000+01:00Sorry, if i might sound too harsh, but death is as...Sorry, if i might sound too harsh, but death is as real as life itself. I lost the physical presence of my loving dad this feb, and i can understand how you must be feeling at this juncture in your life.<BR/><BR/>Always remember to face life as a challenge and confront it. Life has very strange ways of teaching things. Each day is an experience in itself.<BR/><BR/>You sound to be a strong person, and i think it wasnt without any reason that you were nicknamed a Princess. Make sure that you can make a difference, however small it be, in the lives of the loved ones you have.Sarfraaz Ahmedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05627188302724560435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-31147970347691381412008-09-10T03:15:00.000+01:002008-09-10T03:15:00.000+01:00oh north west outskirts.oh north west outskirts.Vaudevillianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17865806604577925344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-25272783471119593362008-09-07T11:30:00.000+01:002008-09-07T11:30:00.000+01:00Thank you for your support everyone :)Rayshma: Adv...Thank you for your support everyone :)<BR/><BR/><B>Rayshma:</B> Advice well given, shall keep it in mind :) And am not getting married sooner, that's exactly what aunt keeps telling me to do! hehe<BR/><BR/><B>I Love Lucy:</B> It is hard to find words to console someone really... it's one of those sticky areas where even silence doesn't seem good enough sometimes. And umm.. no... Not getting married sooner than planned!<BR/><BR/><B>SnS:</B> *hugs* :)<BR/><BR/><B>Galadriel:</B> Yes it will be amazing when it happens :)<BR/><BR/><B>Alwayshappykya:</B> It does go away somewhat with time... getting there :) And no no... no wedding happening as such right now!<BR/><BR/><B>Silvara:</B> Thank you so much babe! Really value those words :)<BR/><BR/><B>Never mind!:</B> Thank you so much for your support girl! I know nothing can be changed even if I go back... just one of those thoughts though :) Thank you again.<BR/><BR/><B>Winger:</B> But that's what I'm saying!! I don't say London is my home, I know it isn't... home is where it is. What I am saying though that this life I have right now over here, it is what it is supposed to be... and it's not something permanent, but I just wondered if leaving now sitead as planned would somehow be better.<BR/><BR/><B>La Vida Loca:</B> *hugs*<BR/><BR/><B>Vaudevillian:</B> Loss. I hate loss and I hate Life for throwing that in the package. Yes there has been much rain here, bloody depressing. Might I ask where you're based?DewdropDreamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01458048793584270994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-48364252970612460542008-09-07T08:07:00.000+01:002008-09-07T08:07:00.000+01:00sorry bout that. the more i'm curious to have a pe...sorry bout that. the more i'm curious to have a peek into "the other side" myself, the more I hate losing a dear one. been questioning life since eternity.<BR/><BR/>say. is there any rain on your side?Vaudevillianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17865806604577925344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-66124637142810028692008-09-06T00:53:00.000+01:002008-09-06T00:53:00.000+01:00:(I am so sorry!Hugs:(<BR/>I am so sorry!<BR/>HugsLa vida Locahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08788060251858036228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-62052504053179355012008-09-05T08:53:00.000+01:002008-09-05T08:53:00.000+01:00This comment has been removed by the author.Lion cubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15296191542873590936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-62424969423687121532008-09-05T04:23:00.000+01:002008-09-05T04:23:00.000+01:00Ohhh....I am really sorry for your loss Dew!! Whil...Ohhh....I am really sorry for your loss Dew!! While it is normal for people to question their choices in difficult times like these, I think you are string enough to stick to what you are doing. Because at the end of the day, you wouldnt be able to change any of these events even if you were around. I really hope you find the strength to deal with the grief. And you know we are around for you. Take care.Never Mind!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/00743537362678602058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-40327305821780925392008-09-05T01:23:00.000+01:002008-09-05T01:23:00.000+01:00Ahhh babe - I'm really sorry for you loss. It hits...Ahhh babe - I'm really sorry for you loss. It hits you and you don't even realise, even for the people that we didn't know that well - they all had an impact on our lives.<BR/><BR/>Tears are only one way of grieving - don't be ashamed that you're not crying - you're grieving in your own way and healing as well by writing in this blog. And when you DO feel like crying - do it - don't hold back.<BR/><BR/>Wanting to go back and reconnect is a feeling I know all too well - I felt the same when my grandmother died in India - I wanted to be there. When my friend's father committed suicide earlier this year - it shocked me and made me aware of my own parent's mortality. Do what you think is best, only you know darl.<BR/><BR/>People aren't really gone - they are always there with you from the moments they imprinted on your memories and your heart. When you get married, you will remember them and they will be there :)Sighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14098437493811974422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-63530137416839680272008-09-04T23:52:00.000+01:002008-09-04T23:52:00.000+01:00Sorry about the loss dear..and yes, I know how it ...Sorry about the loss dear..and yes, I know how it must feel to be so far away from your loved ones at times like these.<BR/><BR/>Hang on and that pain fades away..slowly but surely. {{Hugs}}<BR/><BR/>And what's this about wedding? Have these been bells ringing and we havn't yet heard? :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-60176104026162719942008-09-04T21:36:00.000+01:002008-09-04T21:36:00.000+01:00crap. the first post you read on a new blog kinda ...crap. the first post you read on a new blog kinda jolts you to a reality that is very much tangible outside the blog-world. chin up, m'dear. think of your wedding and how amazing it will be to see your relatives happy for you!!Ramya Ramaduraihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06059710077129271553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-46973522912008592692008-09-04T21:13:00.000+01:002008-09-04T21:13:00.000+01:00*hugs* I know how it feels. reminds me of a post I...*hugs* I know how it feels. reminds me of a post I had to do long back..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-81324158679300856342008-09-04T20:54:00.000+01:002008-09-04T20:54:00.000+01:00I am sorry for your loss.I wonder if there ever is...I am sorry for your loss.<BR/>I wonder if there ever is a right thing to say to someone who has lost a loved one.Nothing can compare to the grief and pain that they go through.<BR/>And I was just about to the same thing that Rayshma did in her second comment.She beat me to it!I love Lucyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07657087361315399102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-15915794050119265132008-09-04T20:27:00.000+01:002008-09-04T20:27:00.000+01:00on a lighter note... maybe u should get married so...on a lighter note... <BR/>maybe u should get married sooner than planned ;)rayshmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09702175811120928581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21672309.post-45732795986848736412008-09-04T20:26:00.000+01:002008-09-04T20:26:00.000+01:00nobody really leaves us. they're always there to l...nobody really leaves us. they're always there to look over us. spooky as that may sound, i believe in it. <BR/>i know how difficult it is to cope with the loss. esp if the ppl u 'lose' were close to u. but i also believe that such losses make u infinitely stronger. and yeah, more responsible. <BR/>i've been thru similar situations... maybe worse, in the past year and half... i lost my dad in may. and vin lost his dad last april. it's taken every ounce of courage to not cry publicly. and yeah, i believe dad still watches over me... <BR/>so, chin up! and live life so that u make them proud of u!rayshmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09702175811120928581noreply@blogger.com